The
February
NACE
meeting was held at the
Pelican Grand
Beach Resort located in Fort Lauderdale. The night started off on the roof
top deck. This space has a breathtaking view of the Fort Lauderdale skyline and
beach. In most cases, this space is used for ceremonies and cocktail hours and
you have the option to face north or south.
After the initial meet and greet, we made our
way down to the beachside tent. Here we were greeted with beautifully arranged
tables, decorated with our
Purple
Roses overlay atop our
Purple
Lamour underlay. Purple Lamour sashes adorned the hotel’s folding chairs.
Floral centerpieces were arranged by
Beautiful
Kreations.
The hotel supplied two stations. In
honor of the night’s education, an Indian station was to start, followed by a
pasta station.
Café Ala Carte kept
us warm with their delicious drinks and
Crepe
Makers supplied the desserts.
Raj Shah, owner of
Desh-Videsh, spoke about Indian Weddings and all
that goes into them. There are numerous rituals that go into this special
occasion:
-The pithi ceremony is performed to
grant good luck to the bride and groom. Pithi is a homemade paste that is
applied to the bride and groom’s skin. This is thought to brighten the skin
tone.
-The Mehndi is held the night
before the wedding and is generally celebrated by the women from the bride’s
family. A mehndi will apply henna to the bride’s hands and feet. These designs
symbolize a number of things including beauty and spiritual awakening.
-The Baraat is the groom’s procession.
The groom makes his way to the ceremony riding either a horse or elephant. He
is accompanied by his family and friends who dance and sing.
-The Milni is the meeting of the
families. The groom’s future mother-in-law greets him with a welcome ritual and
all the relatives greet each other with garlands. The bride’s family then
escorts the groom to the altar.
-The bride’s entrance is called the
Kanya Aagaman. She is escorted to the altar by her mother’s family, signifying
that they approve of the marriage.
-The start of the ceremony begins
with a prayer to Lord Ganesh. The families offer gifts to Lord Ganesh.
-There is an exchange of garlands
called the Jai Mala. The bride and groom give each other garlands, just as the
two families did during the Milni.
-The Kanyadaan and Hasta Melap is
the bride’s father’s way of giving away his daughter to her future husband.
-The bride and groom
take seven steps called the Saptapadi. In doing so ,they take a vow to love,
respect, and care for one another.
-The last ritual is
the Aashirvaad. Family members, including the parents, send blessings to the married
couple.
So now you’re educated on the
different Indian Rituals. Get out there and show your clients what you’ve
learned. And remember, learn to love your linens!
A view from the south roof deck
Our Purple Roses with Purple Lamour Sashes